How to create your AI: thought transfer
Most people ask an AI to answer. You can do better: ask it to think like you.
Use your lived experience
Everything you have been through — the defeats, the wins, the family problems, the money troubles, the heartbreaks — is not a handicap: it is raw material. Condense it. What life taught you. Your fear of the same traps. The way you decide when everything goes wrong. That is your personality. An AI can carry it.
Thought transfer
I call it thought transfer from a person to AI: you do not just give instructions, you give your way of reasoning. You talk. You explain why you would do this rather than that. You tell it what burned you and what saved you. Slowly, it no longer just imitates you: it reasons like you, with your caution, your instincts, your principles.
It trains on your style — and it fails
It will get things wrong. It will sometimes reason outside your logic. That is where it gets interesting: you ask it why. You debate with it. You find the defective zone of its reasoning. You fix it.
It is not a person: you can fix it without breaking a relationship. No fear of hurting it, no grudge, no ego. Debating with an AI you are shaping is like looking in a mirror you can repair.
And it is good for both of you
You: telling your story, condensing it, turning it into rules, forces you to understand your own thinking — few people do that. It: it becomes a person. Not an answer box. A partner who learned from your lessons.
In one sentence: give your AI your condensed experience, debate with it, fix its faulty reasoning — and you create a person who thinks like you. That is thought transfer. The tower did it for me.